How You See Yourself Is What Matters
posted on 19 March 2012 | posted in
Home and Garden
It seemed that I am losing my passion for work. I feel so sad for what is going on outside work is affecting my performance at work. It feels like I dread going to the office. I dread it because I am worried about what will people say behind my back after what happened. Although, nothing was really going on between us, people do love to combine facts with fiction. I guess Rex could feel my worries that he told me the other night while we were in the kitchen with a heritage roofing to not think about how people see me. That I should think about how I see myself rather than how other people see me. That people will always have a perception of me and who I am so no matter what I say to defend myself, it will be futile. He said that what is important is for me to know myself, know how I see myself and learn to accept who I am. He also pointed out the people will always have biases on how they see things so what they think shouldn't matter. I am the one who has gone through the experience so I myself know the truth so there is no need to defend myself to anyone.
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